Have you ever wondered if there is such a thing as a penis too big for a gay man? It’s a question that has long been debated in the gay community, with some claiming that there is no such thing as a “big penis” and others believing that there are limits to how large a penis can be before it becomes uncomfortable. In this blog post, we will discuss the topic of a “big penis” and whether or not there is such a thing as a penis too big for a gay man. We will explore the opinions of both sides and provide insights on the topic.
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The answer may surprise you
When it comes to the size of a penis, not all gay men agree on what is too big. In fact, some gay men even joke about how large penises can be a blessing in disguise. The extra girth and length of a large penis can make it easier for a man to reach new heights of pleasure with his partner. However, it’s important to remember that penis size doesn’t necessarily equate to sexual pleasure, so having an overly large penis may not be the most beneficial thing for a gay man’s sex life.
The pros and cons of a large penis
When it comes to sex between gay men, the size of a man’s penis can be a source of pleasure and angst. For those who enjoy bottoming, a larger penis can feel better for anal stimulation and prostate play. On the other hand, a larger penis may be more likely to cause an anal fissure or other discomfort. Obviously, there’s the visual aspect, especially when you’re on your knees and a giant phallus is waving in your face, but let’s not forget that big things can become a choking hazard or even can cause significant damage to your throat as one man learned in 2018.
The pros of a large penis include increased stimulation for bottoms during sex. A larger penis can fill up a person more and make it easier to find and stimulate the prostate. This can result in more intense orgasms and longer-lasting pleasure.
On the other hand, there are some drawbacks associated with larger penises. The size may make it more difficult to penetrate, which can cause pain and discomfort. The tightness can also put too much pressure on the anus and a bad session or overdoing it could result in an anal fissure.
In some cases, it may also cause one partner to feel uncomfortable or insecure due to the size difference.
Men with large johnsons can also find themselves viewed solely as sexual objects – and risk becoming fetishised or objectified. Pretty insulting when your cock is just one (proportionally speaking) small part of you.
Ultimately, it’s important to communicate with your partner about size preferences. Experimenting with different positions and using plenty of lube can help to make sex more enjoyable for both partners regardless of size. Finding the right balance between comfort and pleasure is key for having enjoyable sex regardless of penis size.
Tips for dealing with a large penis
If you have a large penis, there are some techniques and tools you can use to make sex more comfortable for both you and your partner. Here are some of our tips:
- Use Lube – Lubricant is essential for anal sex and other kinds of penetrative sex. It helps reduce friction and makes it much easier to penetrate without causing pain or discomfort.
- Try Different Positions – Some positions are better for people with large penises than others. The missionary position is usually a good choice as the receiver can control the depth of penetration. Other popular positions that work well with a larger penis include doggy style, spooning, and side-by-side.
- Use a Dildo or Butt Plug – If you’re not quite ready to penetrate your partner with your own penis, you can use a dildo or butt plug as an alternative. These sex toys come in a variety of sizes and can help you get used to the feeling of something larger.
- Take it Slow – Rushing into anal sex or any kind of penetration can be painful or uncomfortable. Take your time and start with some foreplay or other kinds of pleasure before trying to penetrate your partner.
- Use Poppers – Poppers are a type of drug that relaxes muscles and increases blood flow, making anal sex more pleasurable for both partners. Just make sure to use them safely and according to the instructions on the bottle.
Dealing with a large penis doesn’t have to be intimidating or uncomfortable. With the right knowledge and preparation, you can make sure both you and your partner enjoy the experience.
The psychology behind why some men prefer large cocks
When it comes to gay men and big penises, there is more than meets the eye. For some, a larger penis can represent an increased sense of power and dominance, while the size may symbolize acceptance and belonging for others. But what does this mean when it comes to sex?
Our Sexpert Patrick Devon told us, “For many gay men, the thought of having their anus stretched open by a large penis can be both thrilling and intimidating. This sensation of “gaping” their anus is sometimes is something a lot of bottoms strive for, because it’s seen as a challenge… One they want to excel in!
“While it can be uncomfortable and even painful at times, some gay men find that being dominated and having their ass “wrecked” by a larger penis can be incredibly pleasurable. In some cases, the size of the penis can even become a point of pride among partners, with some people referring to this phenomenon as “size queens.
“And then there’s cock worship. That feeling of taking in something bigger than ourselves… it can be quite a religious moment for many men when they kneel at the church of cock. Sometimes men want to be dominated, made to feel that they are only there to please. It kind of makes sense when you think about it. In society, (now I know this is a generalisation) men are conditioned to be strong, in control and in charge, but what if when you get home you just want to feel a little more subordinate, a little more controlled? Well taking the big penis orally or anally, is definitely one way of giving in to something bigger than you”.
Devon finishes by saying, “Ultimately, it’s important to remember that everyone is different, and not all gay men are necessarily attracted to big penises. Everyone has their own preferences, but understanding why some people might have an affinity for large penises can help us to understand our own desires better.”
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