THE UNDATEABLE GAY | Catches Crabs
Once upon a time dear readers, I did actually have a boyfriend. I know it’s hard to believe considering I’ve been single and seemingly undateable for over a decade. But […]
COLUMN | Sleaze please
Once upon a time in the 1990s when AIDS and HIV were still at their most prevalent and unchecked there was funding for the role of “safer sex fairy!” in […]
COLUMN | Thoughts on and a Christmas message from an old queen
What is it about this time of year? A never-ending procession of lists, the good, the bad, the best, the worse, achievements, failures, the dead! Christmas is a time to […]
COLUMN | When all I needed was a Hand Shandy
Why can’t I concentrate today? My browser crashed and I deleted all of my passwords and all of my history. So much porn lost to posterity. I doubt I have […]
COLUMN | Memories and Music
This afternoon was spent with friends and taking time going through the treasures that are so important in my life. My friends are those who don’t answer back. They are […]
COLUMN | I had to choose: The Internet or The TV
Preconditioning Around 4 years ago, in reduced financial circumstance, I was faced with making a decision. Television licence or Internet and telephone. I elected for the Internet. Ditching the television […]
COLUMN | Don’t we all end up paying for sex?
Recently I read an article about the increasing number of young men who pay for sex. Welcome to the club. In the gay world, middle-aged and older men have had […]
COLUMN | An MP’s Marriage Proposal
I just loved the proposal during the debate about same-sex marriage in Australia. The time and the place. Australian MP Tim Wilson gave an impassioned and emotional speech with his […]
MOTORING | Running w-Heels November 2017
Welcome to Running w-Heels. A monthly or some such column of the woes and joys I face running an ageing fleet of metal from Italy and Germany. So far the […]
COLUMN | Homophobic banter is still prevalent at work, even in 2017
In the last couple of weeks, I have given up my job. I have arthritis in my feet, ankles and knees – the condition has impacted on my ability to […]
11 times guys’ peens will just have a mind of their own
From my teenage years through into my 30s I could depend on my cock to misbehave, at the wrong time and in the wrong place. Driving. In the back seat […]