From being too drugged to smelly foreskins here are some of things that gay men say are the deal breakers for them in the bedroom.
No to total darkness
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This one user said that when with a new partner that the lights needed to be switched on, saying “If I’m hooking up with someone I don’t know very well, the lights need to be on. Total darkness with a stranger is a no go. Not only do I want to see all the parts and be able to make eye contact, but I also have a big imagination and usually envision a horde of lice spreading from his body to mine”.