Calling names
Acting out on your own fantasy, without letting the other person knowing what is going on is a big no, especially when it comes to fantasising that they are playing a role, which they’ve not agreed on. Previously we wrote about the worst things guys say that they had been called in Bed – and being called “Daddy” when it isn’t expected is problematic for some guys. One user wrote, “Calling me “daddy” or some other weird out-of-context thing from his fantasy brain which we haven’t agreed on”
Another added, “There was this one time I hooked up with a guy who had a HUGE Dom daddy/ Little boy kink that I did not know about.
“The shit he was saying to me while I sucked his [dick] was LITERALLY pedophilic. “I came into your room when you were 12 and molested you.” Then he started saying how he wants to take me shopping for skirts and thongs.
“I had never sucked dick that fast in my entire life. I was so turned off that I finished him quick and left. He was such a handsome guy too.”
