Fashion designer, Tom Ford has said that sleeping with a man doesn’t make you gay.
In an in-depth interview with The Telegraph the openly gay fashion designer, Tom Ford, has revealed his thoughts on gender stereotypes and that sleeping with men, when you’re a man, doesn’t necessarily make you gay.
Ford was speaking about how he admired the younger generation’s dismissal of traditional stereotypes of gender and sexuality. He praised their attitudes of dismissal saying, “What’s great about this new generation is that they’re growing up in a culture where anything goes”.
Hating “Masculinity”
The designer, who also has a range of fragrances spoke how he hates the word masculine. Arguing that people should be able to wear whatever fragrance they thought suited them. He is releasing two new fragrances F*cking Fabulous and Noir Anthracite.
He said, “If you love something and it smells great, why shouldn’t you wear it? Why can’t a man wear a beautiful peony-based fragrance?”
New Generation
The designer also praised the millennial generation for their “anything goes” culture and attitude, saying,
“What’s great about this new generation is that they’re growing up in a culture where anything goes.
“If you’re a guy who paints his nails, that doesn’t mean anything.
“You’re a man sleeping with a man? So what, that doesn’t mean you’re gay.
“I think that men have always been just as vain and cared just as much (about their appearance) as women, but our culture perhaps didn’t support it,”
Of course having sex with men, if you are a man, doesn’t make you gay – you could, of course, be bisexual or pansexual or someone who identifies as MSM (man who has sex with men).
Could make you bi
100% GAY
What does it make you straight. I’m straight then. Super mega straight.
That’s just like saying… I only suck his dick cos it tastes nice ?
Experimenting happens, but if you’re experimenting every night you’re probably gay.
And sleeping with women doesn’t make you straight
does kissing guys make you gay?
I’m gay had I slept with a woman at some point in my life would that make me straight?
also “not sleeping with men” doesn’t make you straight
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The irony of discussing this subject and starting the article with “openly gay fashion designer…”
It certainly doesn’t make you heterosexual ??
I was confronted after 30 years by a friend, who has always claimed to be straight, that he was going out with a trannie. It would’ve been OK had we not decided to remain friends and never discuss sexuality after we’d discussed the topic of religion and sexuality at uni. He was a devout Christian at the time and was convinced homosexuality was a sin. We agreed to differ and stay friends. He always introduced others as his ‘gay’ friends and I had always accepted him for who he said he was. When I asked whether he then saw himself as gay, he told me that he was a ‘people’s person’. The guy was gay then and probably still is, but even an admission he’d made a mistake would’ve been nice. So, you sleep with men? You are gay or bi, not straight, and you certainly aren’t a f*cking ‘people’s person’!!!
If you go down the route of self idetification then sexuality is what you classify yourself as.
MSM has been used the sexual health clinics for years
I believe that sex is sex…it doesn’t classify your orientation…that’s why men will have sex with girls that they don’t find attractive…men will have sex while incarcerated…men will have experiment in the high school or college….we will have sex with a sock …it doesn’t mean that it is your preference.
If the desire to sleep with another man is DEEP in your heart, follow that desire within reason. Some people say it can be ‘prayed away’. However, I tried that idea for many years and it didn’t work – it only screws one up. Sleep with a nice guy You might fall in love with him – what more can a gay man, or whatever, ask for?❤️
No it doesn’t. I’ve slept with men who aren’t gay. They are just comfortable with who they are. Does hugging a man now make him gay also?
I guess orientation can be up for debate where a lot of porn stars in gay scenarios are straight because it pays more than straight porn. Doesn’t mean you get turned on by it.