The term “fag hag” dates back decades and originated from the US, but in 2017 is it now offensive to use?
The term “Fag Hag” is a slang phrase that refers to a woman who hangs around and socialises with mostly gay or bisexual men. These women could be characterised as out-going, camp and very accepting of the gay community – but not always.
Most notable examples of a “fag hag” could be Linda La Hughes in the British sitcom, Gimme Giveme Giveme. US Comedian Margaret Cho has talked in her standup show about being a “fag hag” (but now prefers the term “dick widow” and the legendary performer, Pam Ann has also been described as a “fag hag” by many gay publications.
Some people find the term offensive, whilst others embrace it… Some consider the phrase a term of endearment, but in 2017 does this phrase need to be used?
Over to you – use the comments below to let us know your thoughts. Do you find the term offensive? What other terms could be used instead?
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From what I recall, it was a way for bitchy gays to have a dig at another gay if they had a good friend who happened to be female!
I had a dear friend who called herself by that tag, If the person uses it I am OK with. that, It is about people defining themselves not some Dudley Do Rights making stupid rules
Yes, neither term is flattering, sticking then together doesn’t make it any better
Not to me. I have always worn my haggery with pride. I am pretty ancient though so I may well be out of date.
Personally, I would assume the part that irks people is the “fag” bit. LGBT and its allies despise the word so I think it puts them off from the get-go.
Initially, I was offended by the word ‘Fag’ I preferred gay … however once I fully understood the term and not directed towards me, I was ok .. and my straight women friends were ok too …
I prefer the term ‘fag bangle’ as they hang off your arm looking pretty, but don’t serve any function ?
Nah, not offensive
Oh yeah. Deeply offensive. I’m appalled. ???? fuck sakes
Nope doesn’t bother me, not part of the snowflake society. It’s a term that’s been used for decades! I fully embrace being a fag hag. X
Not on the gay scene. It’s a woman who love gay company.
I knew girls back in the day who embraced the term. Now in the age of everyone being offended by something for the sake of being offended….. who knows